as a couple who have been swinging for quite a while now,basically been there done it,were starting to find some of the discussions on here laughable,i would say only a tiny percentage of the guys on here actually play,so to judge other peoples fantasies or expeirences is hysterical,when we started in the lifestyle i (hubby)was as str8 as any man could be,and still am.men dont in anyway turn me on,weve swung with at least 30 different black guys,all str8,and now have 5 regular guys we call good freinds as well as lovers,we meet with them regularly out of the 5 ive sucked 4 of there cocks,not because thats what i/he wanted me to do,just because after getting to know someone that well and after some real fantastic sexual sessions,dp,dv,2 cocks in her mouth the usual stuff mmf do,it was just a kind off natural next step,and let me tell you all,we all fucking love it lol.its all about the moment sex as a funny way of making you break all the so called rules,have fun everyone we are.