It has been a strange 2 weeks. After the whole pregnancy "joke," I decided that Mel and I had to talk. So, that Friday night, we talked. I told her that we needed change. She said there would be no changes. She didn't understand why I was so upset. I told her about sending the pictures of the blowjob. She said something like, "Why would that bother you? You're the one that wanted to watch us in the past having sex. I thought that you would like the pictures." She went on to say that she and Bryan never wanted to let me watch them have sex the few times that they did, that was something that I wanted. She asked me if I liked watching those few times and I honestly told her that I did. I also said that watching caused me pain as well.
She bluntly asked me if I liked knowing that she was fucking another guy. I told her part of me did. She kept asking me "what is the problem, then?" I told her that I needed some normal relationship with her where I could be sexually and emotionally close to her. She told me that it was hard enough having sex with Bryan twice a week, she did not have energy to have sex with me. Besides, she said that Bryan made it clear that I was not allowed to have sex with her. She told me that Bryan is her man and that she "obeys" what he says. I questioned her about "obeying," by asking was she his slave, was he her master. She, in so many words, told me that he was. Whatever he says, goes. She told me she loved him and that's the way it is. She told me, again, that she loved me, but in a different way and for now, Bryan was her man. She said that she had children with Bryan. I said that I knew that but Bryan wasn't raising them, I was.
That made her a little angry. She asked if I wanted children and I told her that I did. She told me that she would go off the pill, then, and start letting me have sex with her. But, she warned me, she would keep having sex with Bryan, too. She said that if I was willing to gamble that I would get her pregnant, not Bryan, she was OK with it. She took my hand and put it on her stomach and asked if I would mind if she ended up carrying his child inside her instead of mine. I told her to stay on the pill for the time being
She bluntly asked me if I liked knowing that she was fucking another guy. I told her part of me did. She kept asking me "what is the problem, then?" I told her that I needed some normal relationship with her where I could be sexually and emotionally close to her. She told me that it was hard enough having sex with Bryan twice a week, she did not have energy to have sex with me. Besides, she said that Bryan made it clear that I was not allowed to have sex with her. She told me that Bryan is her man and that she "obeys" what he says. I questioned her about "obeying," by asking was she his slave, was he her master. She, in so many words, told me that he was. Whatever he says, goes. She told me she loved him and that's the way it is. She told me, again, that she loved me, but in a different way and for now, Bryan was her man. She said that she had children with Bryan. I said that I knew that but Bryan wasn't raising them, I was.
That made her a little angry. She asked if I wanted children and I told her that I did. She told me that she would go off the pill, then, and start letting me have sex with her. But, she warned me, she would keep having sex with Bryan, too. She said that if I was willing to gamble that I would get her pregnant, not Bryan, she was OK with it. She took my hand and put it on her stomach and asked if I would mind if she ended up carrying his child inside her instead of mine. I told her to stay on the pill for the time being