First, Maltavmalta,
Yes i get the thrill aspect and i do get excited to see her with other men. The reference to extreme sports is not the same. In those sports there is risk, but you do trust in your skill, equipment, etc. There is a level of safety. Some of these poor souls on this forum have removed every "safety" and have told their wives - "Please have a relationship that you fall in love with the other man" and when that does indeed happen they still refuse to fight for the woman they claim to love. They hide behind "i just really want her to be happy". Maybe none of them have considered that perhaps what their wives want is them to act like a man and fight for what they want.
I'll bet the 99.99 % of the guys on here introduced their wives to the idea of cuckolding for their own selfish pleasure. They were turned on by the idea of their wives fucking other men. Somewhere along the way they lost sight of the fact that this activity was supposed to be fun and exciting - not sad and depressing.
AS for your following questions:
- This "Love" vs "in love" is high school nonsense. We have been together 16 years, we are best friends and i am still totally excited to fuck her.
- Obviously I'm OK with the jealously aspect as i have let her have many sexual partners.
- I don't really have any interest with her having a committed relationship with another man. There was many times that could have happened - neither my wife nor i had any interest in that.
- Neither myself nor my wife have any interest in her having anything more than a sexual relationship with other men. We have discussed this several times and she has stated that she does not want that at all. So none of these are possible outcomes - for us anyway.
becontree2001uk, Yes you are indeed right - Each to their own. I agree fully. I just cant get my head around the idea of being excited by having your wife leave you for another man, But i don't have to.
My relationship with my wife and family is great. We like to sample different things of the "Fetish Buffet" and feel enriched by our experiences. Make no mistake, these are OUR experiences. So good luck to you all, just try to not ruin your entire lives for one particular sexual fetish.
Don't think that i will never request that she fuck another man, because i probably will, WE just wont let it ruin OUR relationship, marriage, family, etc.