Finally had some time. With the beautiful weather yesterday after the rainy Saturday, had no choice but to attack the yard with a vengence.... And, by yesterday, Sue had finally had enough sex (with me, at least!) to say she needed a night-off....
I read back over what I posted yesterday and I guess I was kinda wordy...
Anyway - Sue and I have been talking - obviously - a lot since last Thursday and I guess I should share some of that here.
First I just have to say that the effects of Sue having another guy are just incredible. I mean not that she was unhappy or anything - but the difference in her whole attitude towards everything seems to be a lot brighter since she got home on Thursday night. It's just kinda surprising that this has that much effect on her. I guess it could be physical, but it also seems to have a "mental" element to her attitude. She just seems to be on an "up" since then. And I guess, why not? I know it's great for her to feel that she's desireable and "wanted".
And I guess that leads into what we've been talking about. Namely, what is she thinking about Frank.
One thing that she shared was that it wasn't that Frank was so good in bed. In fact, she's said to me several times that I "don't have anything to worry about" in bed. But - in the same breath, she's also added that he was a LOT of fun to be with and that she definitely enjoyed herself a lot.
It does feel kinda weird to talk so casually about her enjoying another guy like that but it is what it is. She did say that she felt a little self-conscious with him at first (she added that she felt that especially when Frank admitted he'd never had a bare-pussy before!). Again, if it wasn't that I "knew" Frank, I'd be totally excited by this - but it still feels kind of weird that she was Frank's first bare pussy.
It was a bit awkward to first start talking about the sex they had together. It turned out to actually, as I'd described it, to be somewhat normal/calm sex and not some sort of crazy or frenzied sexual romp. She told me that he felt very normal in her - as I said he's not quite as big as me. When she didn't say it, I came out and asked her if she'd "cum with him" and she hesitated a bit and then calmly said "yes". I told her that it was okay - and even that I wanted her to. She smiled when I said that.
I did tell her that now that it was already a done-deal, that I had some second-thoughts about Frank. She seemed surprised and wanted to know why. At that point I had to own up to what I'd already posted here - that it felt a bit strange to know that there's a guy who's our friend, not more than 10 minutes or so away who's now been with her. She said I was being silly and that to her, this was no different than Don or Brad. But when I said that this time he's much closer to our social-circles and such, that she got a bit pensive and said that no matter that, I was still being silly.
So - I asked her - what she was thinking about Frank. And more so - how often! She giggled and said that it was tempting to have another guy available so close by. And I know that despite her saying "only kidding" that she had a bit of seriousness to her - but she said that in all honesty, she didn't want anything more than what she's had in the past - some fun maybe once a week or so. She actually hugged me and said that I was being silly if I was worried about Frank because he's so close-by - and this time she said to me "he's no Don in bed, if that's what you're worried about....". So that was a bit of a relief as I know Don could really rock her sometimes.
But back to what I was saying earlier about the effect this has had on her. She was horny both Friday and Saturday night - to the point where she actually asked me to go down on her for "a little more" on Saturday night. Last night, despite us not having sex (as I said, even she was finally fulfilled) she did say, and repeated again this morning, that she will be seeing Frank again on Thursday. I asked her if she was going to go out at night again with him or whether, since he could probably be home during the daytime, whether she'd maybe see him in the afternoon. She smiled at that and said that she'd/they'd already been talking about that.
I'm not sure if I posted here or just in a PM, that Frank WAS concerned about causing Sue to "stray from her marriage". She said that she told him that after more than 25 years together, that she was "curious" and that she told him she felt an attraction to him and that she felt safe with him. She said he replied that he surely didn't want to come between us (Sue and I) and that he didn't want her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with.
I guess before I close here for now that I'll share what she said about the actual sex with him. One is that she said she loved playing the role of being his "first mistress" and that he was totally thrilled when she told him she trusted him and that he didn't need to use a condom!!! She said he was almost not believing her at first as he said that it'd been a long time since he'd had sex without using one as that was the primary contraception that he and Joanne used. I joked with her that maybe that was the reason their marriage broke up! She giggled and said something about it being very obvious that he loved going bareback with her. I didn't get what she meant until she looked at me and said "he came so much that first time!". She said she did orgasm but more from the closeness and feeling she felt with him rather than his technique or anything like that.
What I really want to see now, other than how it goes this week, is what Sue will do this week. I know that Frank surely hasn't (and probably won't) made any requests or demands of her in any way, so what I want to see is what SHE wants. I am totally horny sitting here thinking of her doing the panty/denial thing with me as something she wants for herself this time. I think last week she did it for me - but I got a sense that she too appreciated what the short period of abstention did for her!
So - to answer the other questions....
Loadman - yes, my pipes are quite cleared out now. 3 nights in a row of deeply satisfying sex surely does it.
Jax - I love the moments when she comes home and there is that brief period of awkwardness between us. As I said, it feels totally like being on a first-date long ago. The uncertainty of what you'll find as you undress your lover and the excitement of sharing and enjoying what you do find.
Cleaner - at this point, Sue, and I agree, wants to keep this on the QT and not tell Frank that I know about things that are happening. I will say that it will be interesting when he and I see each other next. Even now, sitting here writing this, I have this incredibly deep sexual arousal when I think about Frank having experienced sex with Sue - and when I think about him truly "feeling" her cum with him, it's such an intense turn on thinking about her pussy clutching at his cock and him knowing how she feels at that moment.....
Gotta run.