Going soft

[Sissydoctor]

I am still getting soft when trying to have sex with my wife

It has been two weeks since my wife started having sex with J. And they have been having sex everyday and night if you know what i mean .

Yesterday i tried having sex with my wife two times. First time i was not even able to remove her panties. I came all over her panties. She said J never had little accident like me and I should take some tip from J as he gave her more orgasm in last 2 weeks than I gave her on last 2 years.

I got excited by her dirty talk and this time I penetrated her but went soft after 3-4 stokes. She said lts look like my small peepee is still not up to task and she will have to get sexual satisfaction from J huge cock. Hearing this I got erect in one second and came inside her in another.

She laughed and said it was even more pathetic than becoming soft and if i want another chance in her pussy i should start eating her.

So this happened yesterday i just cant get hard without thinking of my wife having sex with J. And my premature ejaculation is increasing day by day and to make things even difficult for of my wife have put me in chastity and given me few crotchless panties and . She told me to wear it always till next weekend.

If i am even able to get hard next weekend i dont think i will last even a second in her pussy.

 

[Saraha]

I am still getting soft when trying to have sex with my wife

It has been two weeks since my wife started having sex with J. And they have been having sex everyday and night if you know what i mean .

Yesterday i tried having sex with my wife two times. First time i was not even able to remove her panties. I came all over her panties. She said J never had little accident like me and I should take some tip from J as he gave her more orgasm in last 2 weeks than I gave her on last 2 years.

I got excited by her dirty talk and this time I penetrated her but went soft after 3-4 stokes. She said lts look like my small peepee is still not up to task and she will have to get sexual satisfaction from J huge cock. Hearing this I got erect in one second and came inside her in another.

She laughed and said it was even more pathetic than becoming soft and if i want another chance in her pussy i should start eating her.

So this happened yesterday i just cant get hard without thinking of my wife having sex with J. And my premature ejaculation is increasing day by day and to make things even difficult for of my wife have put me in chastity and given me few crotchless panties and . She told me to wear it always till next weekend.

If i am even able to get hard next weekend i dont think i will last even a second in her pussy.

Chastity can give you blue balls, and make you very stiff. Prostrate milking could be a good move for 4 weeks at a time, so you can't masturbate. If you can't rub yourself, then you can dribble pre-cum to show your genitalia is in good working condition.

 

[Nazareth]

You're thinking too much. Relax, and don't worry what your performance will be like.
One thing she is correct about is you NEED to please her orally at every opportunity. Especially since she has taken a new lover!

 

[SquirmingSub]

SissyDoc,

Thank you for the update, looking forward to hearing more over time.

 

[Saraha]

You're thinking too much. Relax, and don't worry what your performance will be like.
One thing she is correct about is you NEED to please her orally at every opportunity. Especially since she has taken a new lover!

If you can please her orally, she will put you on a pedestal (and keep you in her life). :love::yumyum::love:

 

[SquirmingSub]

If you can please her orally, she will put you on a pedestal (and keep you in her life). :love::yumyum::love:

In my case, oral has become the primary way my wife receives orgasms with me and we do enjoy a deep connection with truly wonderful intimacy. I would even say our intimacy has increased as our traditional intercourse decreased.

 

[Saraha]

By age 30, guys should be getting help from an experienced woman to brush up on their oral skills. Never too young to learn how to make a woman curl her toes in orgasm. Might be worth parting with some cash to get real lessons.

Lesbians don't need a penis to make love - study how they "do it" and you will never sleep alone again. Your cock will be a bonus in bed after your oral performance has made her sounds wake the neighbours.

:nono::bj:

 

[SquirmingSub]

By age 30, guys should be getting help from an experienced woman to brush up on their oral skills. Never too young to learn how to make a woman curl her toes in orgasm. Might be worth parting with some cash to get real lessons.

Lesbians don't need a penis to make love - study how they "do it" and you will never sleep alone again. Your cock will be a bonus in bed after your oral performance has made her sounds wake the neighbours.

:nono::bj:

Sarah is correct in this area, as always you are indeed correct in saying that by the age of 30 should be getting some instruction in given oral if they have not already attained a notable oral skill level. I for one learned early in my 20's that so many woman can find a level of orgasmic bliss through oral when they can not through intercourse. It is so true that you do not need a penis to have a rewarding, intimate and loving relationship with a woman.

A funny story, during a hot summer day, the bedroom window was open to allow for some airflow, my first wife and I were enjoying some oral pleasure on this day, this was back in my early 20's so I was still working on my oral skill set and my than wife reach an amazing orgasmic state to the point were yes her toes were curling and she was moaning in a very loud expressive manner. So loud that the neighbor called the local sheriff department. The sheriff deputes took each one of us aside to get our respective story and than brought us back together to confirm that we were saying the same thing. It would seem that you do not have a good healthy sex life until the police have been called by the neighbors. It seemed the neighbor actually thought we were fighting because of the expressive orgasmic moans... LOL

So I am here to also tell you, you do not need your penis to enjoy amazing sexual connection and intimacy.

 

[biukgal]

Most of the time, I fail to give my wife a proper penis orgasm naturally, without the cock extender or toys. But there are some times when I start to hit the right spot and at that time, the worst things she could say is "Don't Stop". Because the second she starts to unleash these don't stops on rapid, is when my mind goes into sexual overdrive and I blow my load like old faithful, leaving her wanting more. Sometimes she would beg me to go deeper, but like Scotty on the Enterprise, I was giving her all I got. Not being able to go deeper is a fast track to losing my erection. My wife loves the spoon position, but I do not have enough cock to get the job done. I get frustrated trying to please her that way. In fact, I do not have enough cock to properly fit inside her, so I lose erection after a while. Then I started suffering from performance anxiety, putting too much pressure on myself, I would fail to have erections. I do not have the size and stamina to properly take care of her so why should she suffer for my inadequacies.

 

[Laceyfemme]

Like lots of us, I think you have reached a point where you should seriously consider the benefits of becoming a cuckold and/or a cocksucker. Your wife will thank you for it, obviously. But you may also find plenty of satisfaction just watching and experiencing a fully functional cock perform properly--getting aroused, staying hard, and finally cumming inside of your wife or in your mouth. Feeling all of this happening between your lips is very enjoyable and should honestly remind you of what things were like when you were younger.

 

[Warpt]

I had a surgery on my spine when I was in my teens, due to an unfortunate but odd accident.
The doctor somwwhat botched the surgery in a way that killed my erections, but on the other hand, saved my life and I can walk. The issue cannot be fixed...
I've tried 2 different types of injections which worked best when i was younger and tried viagra, cialis and Levitra. The shots worked best, but these days, at the most, I may get half erect. Pills always made me bigger and longer but still soft.
I cannot afford an implant, but my friends tell me that Medicare pays for it after 65.
I can cum from playing with my semi-erect cock, but I have to be watching some good amateur porn or my wife getting nailed.
I only was able to get 4 shots per month and sometimes they didn't work. So in my prime, I got pussy 1 to 2 times a month.
That's the reason my wife and I started doing 3somes long before we got married. She loved me but needed hard cock.
Today, she lost her MOJO after a required hysterectomy, but in her prime, she was a very classy hot wife.
We both understood that we could make our marriage work, but we needed some hard cocks to help out.
4 kids for 3 different men and 35 years later, we are still going strong. But we now both lost what our bodies need to either get erect or the sex drive to get wet and horns.
It was a fun 40 years of wild and crazy sex, so I cannot complain. She had more to complain about me than I can about her.
I wish I could get a boner for only 5 minutes now.

 

[DominMale]

I had a surgery on my spine when I was in my teens, due to an unfortunate but odd accident.
The doctor somwwhat botched the surgery in a way that killed my erections, but on the other hand, saved my life and I can walk. The issue cannot be fixed...
I've tried 2 different types of injections which worked best when i was younger and tried viagra, cialis and Levitra. The shots worked best, but these days, at the most, I may get half erect. Pills always made me bigger and longer but still soft.
I cannot afford an implant, but my friends tell me that Medicare pays for it after 65.
I can cum from playing with my semi-erect cock, but I have to be watching some good amateur porn or my wife getting nailed.
I only was able to get 4 shots per month and sometimes they didn't work. So in my prime, I got pussy 1 to 2 times a month.
That's the reason my wife and I started doing 3somes long before we got married. She loved me but needed hard cock.
Today, she lost her MOJO after a required hysterectomy, but in her prime, she was a very classy hot wife.
We both understood that we could make our marriage work, but we needed some hard cocks to help out.
4 kids for 3 different men and 35 years later, we are still going strong. But we now both lost what our bodies need to either get erect or the sex drive to get wet and horns.
It was a fun 40 years of wild and crazy sex, so I cannot complain. She had more to complain about me than I can about her.
I wish I could get a boner for only 5 minutes now.

Hey there ! Id love to see your wife !

 

[DominMale]

Most of the time, I fail to give my wife a proper penis orgasm naturally, without the cock extender or toys. But there are some times when I start to hit the right spot and at that time, the worst things she could say is "Don't Stop". Because the second she starts to unleash these don't stops on rapid, is when my mind goes into sexual overdrive and I blow my load like old faithful, leaving her wanting more. Sometimes she would beg me to go deeper, but like Scotty on the Enterprise, I was giving her all I got. Not being able to go deeper is a fast track to losing my erection. My wife loves the spoon position, but I do not have enough cock to get the job done. I get frustrated trying to please her that way. In fact, I do not have enough cock to properly fit inside her, so I lose erection after a while. Then I started suffering from performance anxiety, putting too much pressure on myself, I would fail to have erections. I do not have the size and stamina to properly take care of her so why should she suffer for my inadequacies.

Too bad that hot wife in your profile pic needs good proper fuck !

 

[Warpt]

Hey there ! Id love to see your wife !

Wife and past BULL

 

[Cuckybihubby]

Yepp, often goes soft and happening more and more often

 

[Laceyfemme]

I can cum from playing with my semi-erect cock, but I have to be watching some good amateur porn or my wife getting nailed.

I now need to masturbate starting entirely soft, since I no longer respond at all to medication. Sorry if this is TMI, but I'm curious how common and typical this may be for older guys with some level of dysfunction.

It took me some time to discover that cumming this was even possible, since I was too focused on my advanced ED. I would try all the things I used to do to avoid performance anxiety -- relax and take it slowly, watch the right porn, maybe have a drink -- but none of it worked anymore. You just aren't going to get hard at all once you're truly impotent.

What works for me instead is to just jump right in and start seriously stroking, like I used to do once I decided I had been edging long enough and that it was time to cum. But I can only use my thumb and forefinger, since there's not really enough space for anything more. It doesn't feel like very much at all without an erection, but I keep at it. I close my eyes, try to clear my mind, pinch my nipples hard and massage my inner thighs and taint.

Eventually I feel at least a little tickle and have a sense that things are beginning to build up. My balls contract up into my body, I hold my breath and my muscles tense. I stroke faster and have a sense that it's too late to stop. Of course this is all just like jacking off used to be, but these sensations dominate because the feelings in my cock are weak by comparison.

When I finally cum it is pretty, um, anticlimactic. My cock nearly doubles in size, but that's all of about four inches. There is only a miniscule drop of cum if there's any at all. And it's over in about 3 minutes start to finish, just like it used to be if I needed to jack off in a real hurry. If I try to make it last the moment passes and I probably don't cum at all.

But I definitely still enjoy it and it fulfills a need in some weird way. I find a time and space to jerk off every two to three days and am trending towards doing it more often.

And I can certainly see how doing this while watching your wife and her bull fuck might be the ultimate expression of being a cuck. Much more humiliating than just having a small cock or a mild sexual dysfunction.

 

[Cuckybihubby]

I can cum just rubbing it when I am soft and the funny thing is, I tend to cum in less than half a minute when I masturbate like that. When I am hard I can last but when soft I cum very quickly

 

[Warpt]

I can cum just rubbing it when I am soft and the funny thing is, I tend to cum in less than half a minute when I masturbate like that. When I am hard I can last but when soft I cum very quickly.

I can cum just rubbing it when I am soft and the funny thing is, I tend to cum in less than half a minute when I masturbate like that. When I am hard I can last but when soft I cum very quickly

I just rub the head with some baby oil on my soft cock and it doesn't take long.

 

[Custer Laststand]

interesting topic

ok...well this is an issue i have been dealing with for near on 3 years now. I have always been a cuckold...
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It hasnt really affected our relationship, as she enjoys the power, knows for these reasons she can see other men and knows i would never be able to cheat on her in my current state... even though i never would...so she says, for her its like me wearing an invisible chastity cage...my own poor performance/ability would naturally prevent wanting to be with other women.

Good. Your wife understands you.

So i found this topic very interesting as i am going through it as well...i now wonder, if this is how it is for me from here on, will i ever be back like i used to...

No.

or is this my new natural state...

Yes.

and without the constant bravado needed for my ex...am i now becoming the cuckold i used to pretend to be in a role play situation, but now it has become the real thing.

It is the real thing. You have accepted your natural role, in your marriage and in the broader society, as your dominant wife's submissive cuckold. I encourage you to keep up your acceptance of your wife's dominant role and strong sexuality, which she obviously finds a satisfying form of relationship.

 

[Custer Laststand]

I am still getting soft when trying to have sex with my wife.

I'm sorry to hear that.

It has been two weeks since my wife started having sex with J. And they have been having sex everyday and night if you know what i mean .

Yes, your meaning is clear.

Yesterday i tried having sex with my wife two times. First time i was not even able to remove her panties. I came all over her panties. She said J never had little accidents like me and I should take some tips from J as he gave her more orgasms during the past 2 weeks than I gave her during the past 2 years.

Sounds humiliating.

I got excited by her dirty talk and this time I penetrated her but went soft after 3-4 stokes. She said lt looks like my small peepee is still not up to the task and she will have to get sexual satisfaction from J's huge cock.

You're a fortunate man that your wife has found a sexually-satisfying lover with a huge cock.

Hearing this I got erect in one second and came inside her in another. She laughed and said it was even more pathetic than becoming soft and if i want another chance in her pussy i should start eating her.

This is good advice. As your wife's cuckold, it is your natural role to satisfy her with your tongue — i.e. become your wife's cuntsucker. You should go down on her as often as possible, preferably every day or whenever she seems receptive. You should especially go down on her and clean her pussy with your tongue whenever she has fucked her lover. Then, do not try to penetrate her with your penis unless your wife tells you she wants that.

So this happened yesterday i just cant get hard without thinking of my wife having sex with J.

That's good. You have adapted to being appropriately turned on by your wife taking pleasure with her lover.

And my premature ejaculation is increasing day by day, and to make things even more difficult, my wife has put me in chastity and given me a few crotchless panties. She told me to wear [my chastity device] always till next weekend.

Excellent. Your wife has the right idea. You will probably find her keeping you in your chastity device for progressively longer periods of time, leading to cock-locked being a permanent aspect of your life. You should begin looking forward to that.

If i am even able to get hard next weekend i dont think i will last even a second in her pussy.

Thus, you should make sure to go down on your wife and bring her to orgasm with your tongue before attempting to enter her with your teenie-weenie (if your wife allows that).