".....Ashley was right, you can love two people at the same time."
Before you know it you will each be back down to one person to love. Have you thought how this would play out if Karen moves to the east coast? Why would you ever see Ashley again?
I mean, if you are interested in swapping one hot blonde for another, then knock yourself out. Do you even want to be married? Right now you can play these games between just the 4 of you, but how are you guys planning on explaining this to parents, close friends, relatives, co-workers?
I honestly do not care how this all falls out as I don't have a need to judge like some folks, but it just seems like you are literally not thinking past the next 7 days. You keep talking about "raising a baby".....but have you any clue how life (and people's roles in life) will change when a child is brought into the world? If it was me, I'd fuck the living daylights out of your wife, but if I fell in love with her and had a baby with her I sure as hell would not allow you back in her life. The second she gets pregnant with HIS child your marriage is over......that child is 1000 times more important than your wedding vows. It is NOT your child, it is THEIR child.
Things change, people change, what you have today can be completely different tomorrow. If all of this is accurate I put your current marriage surviving at about 20%....with that percentage dropping by the week....and I put your new relationship with Karen surviving at 50/50.
I really HOPE you come out of this happy, but I just don't see it.
Before you know it you will each be back down to one person to love. Have you thought how this would play out if Karen moves to the east coast? Why would you ever see Ashley again?
I mean, if you are interested in swapping one hot blonde for another, then knock yourself out. Do you even want to be married? Right now you can play these games between just the 4 of you, but how are you guys planning on explaining this to parents, close friends, relatives, co-workers?
I honestly do not care how this all falls out as I don't have a need to judge like some folks, but it just seems like you are literally not thinking past the next 7 days. You keep talking about "raising a baby".....but have you any clue how life (and people's roles in life) will change when a child is brought into the world? If it was me, I'd fuck the living daylights out of your wife, but if I fell in love with her and had a baby with her I sure as hell would not allow you back in her life. The second she gets pregnant with HIS child your marriage is over......that child is 1000 times more important than your wedding vows. It is NOT your child, it is THEIR child.
Things change, people change, what you have today can be completely different tomorrow. If all of this is accurate I put your current marriage surviving at about 20%....with that percentage dropping by the week....and I put your new relationship with Karen surviving at 50/50.
I really HOPE you come out of this happy, but I just don't see it.