STB,
Be assured there are many of us keeping track. It's an uneasy time for you both and I for one don't feel easy about the usual banter and questions because they could so easily set the wrong tone if things change suddenly for you.
It is inevitable that sooner or later something will happen with Robert and Sue. None of us (probably including Sue) have any clue when. You know your wife though, whether it is quiet time or gentle hugs or time away, she will need you now if this is the start of the end.
It must be a different sort of angst for you as you wait though. Sue is not the only one who will need to rewire some brain functions / behaviours when it starts. This in a way will make it tougher for you sometimes because she will see it as affecting her, when some of it will equally (but maybe differently) affects you too.
Such as it is, we are all here to listen / help in whatever way we can if you need us.
Be assured there are many of us keeping track. It's an uneasy time for you both and I for one don't feel easy about the usual banter and questions because they could so easily set the wrong tone if things change suddenly for you.
It is inevitable that sooner or later something will happen with Robert and Sue. None of us (probably including Sue) have any clue when. You know your wife though, whether it is quiet time or gentle hugs or time away, she will need you now if this is the start of the end.
It must be a different sort of angst for you as you wait though. Sue is not the only one who will need to rewire some brain functions / behaviours when it starts. This in a way will make it tougher for you sometimes because she will see it as affecting her, when some of it will equally (but maybe differently) affects you too.
Such as it is, we are all here to listen / help in whatever way we can if you need us.