Sadly, there's not much good news on the home health front. Not much change and unless he becomes more coherent and alert, he can't go off to a rehab center so things are in limbo right now.
On the sex front, last night as we were getting into it ourselves I asked nonchalantly about how things were with Robert about all of this. She said that he's been supportive and that he said he'd give her the space she needed and that he'd be there when she was ready to back to seeing him more. She confirmed that between our daughter being home and her dad's issues, that she didn't feel she was totally up to spending the night with him. But she did say that if things went better for the next week - and our daughter went up to her friends - that she would still want to maybe do so. She looked at me and said that she did still want to spend the night with him. I told her it was okay and that I understood and knew it was coming. It wasn't a totally sexual conversation, I knew she needed to feel my support and I even told her that I knew this was a difficult time for her. She said she wanted to feel close to me right now and even said that she's seen her brother-in-law being much more supportive and close with her sister, etc., and vice-versa for her brothers. I knew from how she was talking that she most definitely wanted to have sex with me last night - and indeed - she wanted me hugging her as she climaxed and then she relaxed and seemed to be more at ease with the rest of the time until we'd both cum again.
So, the plans for denying me have obviously been tossed as she said. I understand totally. I can feel the emotion in her when we have sex and she can finally reach the point where she gives into the orgasm and I can feel her body relax and then really enjoy - it's almost as if she's fighting the first one but then the floodgates open.
As we were going to sleep last night and we cuddled up she asked me if I understood why she wanted to spend the night with him. I wasn't totally sure so I asked her if she thought it might influence how he feels about her. She elbowed me a bit and said "nooo, it's not about him at all silly......" and she said she's pretty much given up on those desires with him (and I seemed to feel that she may now think that it was more her than him all along from some of the ways she's talked about how "smooth" he was with her and how she may have mistaken that) - but she said that it's something she wants to feel again and she said in a quiet voice that she misses that with Robert after she'd learned to enjoy them with Frank. She pushed back against me as she spooned up with me and said as she could feel my no longer limp cock against her back - she said "'This' is what I want to feel with him at least once - not having to run off afterwards" and she snuggled back against me and she seemed to just melt into her pillow.
It did turn me on to hear that and I'm sure my cock responded but I have to also say that at that moment, I also did not like the thought. As I've said in some PM's to other people here - I don't feel threatened by Robert and that maybe all along I've just never sensed the seriousness that I thought Sue wanted between them. But somehow last night lying there - knowing how emotional and, I guess, fragile, she seemed to be feeling - that I was sure I wanted her to share this kind of feeling with him. I'm sure that's why she's not running off to figure out how to do it this week - she must feel that same vulnerability so I'm hoping that's a part of why she's waiting too.
On the sex front, last night as we were getting into it ourselves I asked nonchalantly about how things were with Robert about all of this. She said that he's been supportive and that he said he'd give her the space she needed and that he'd be there when she was ready to back to seeing him more. She confirmed that between our daughter being home and her dad's issues, that she didn't feel she was totally up to spending the night with him. But she did say that if things went better for the next week - and our daughter went up to her friends - that she would still want to maybe do so. She looked at me and said that she did still want to spend the night with him. I told her it was okay and that I understood and knew it was coming. It wasn't a totally sexual conversation, I knew she needed to feel my support and I even told her that I knew this was a difficult time for her. She said she wanted to feel close to me right now and even said that she's seen her brother-in-law being much more supportive and close with her sister, etc., and vice-versa for her brothers. I knew from how she was talking that she most definitely wanted to have sex with me last night - and indeed - she wanted me hugging her as she climaxed and then she relaxed and seemed to be more at ease with the rest of the time until we'd both cum again.
So, the plans for denying me have obviously been tossed as she said. I understand totally. I can feel the emotion in her when we have sex and she can finally reach the point where she gives into the orgasm and I can feel her body relax and then really enjoy - it's almost as if she's fighting the first one but then the floodgates open.
As we were going to sleep last night and we cuddled up she asked me if I understood why she wanted to spend the night with him. I wasn't totally sure so I asked her if she thought it might influence how he feels about her. She elbowed me a bit and said "nooo, it's not about him at all silly......" and she said she's pretty much given up on those desires with him (and I seemed to feel that she may now think that it was more her than him all along from some of the ways she's talked about how "smooth" he was with her and how she may have mistaken that) - but she said that it's something she wants to feel again and she said in a quiet voice that she misses that with Robert after she'd learned to enjoy them with Frank. She pushed back against me as she spooned up with me and said as she could feel my no longer limp cock against her back - she said "'This' is what I want to feel with him at least once - not having to run off afterwards" and she snuggled back against me and she seemed to just melt into her pillow.
It did turn me on to hear that and I'm sure my cock responded but I have to also say that at that moment, I also did not like the thought. As I've said in some PM's to other people here - I don't feel threatened by Robert and that maybe all along I've just never sensed the seriousness that I thought Sue wanted between them. But somehow last night lying there - knowing how emotional and, I guess, fragile, she seemed to be feeling - that I was sure I wanted her to share this kind of feeling with him. I'm sure that's why she's not running off to figure out how to do it this week - she must feel that same vulnerability so I'm hoping that's a part of why she's waiting too.