Saying goodbye
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Hey all,
It's a Wednesday and we've returned to our pattern - after a rousing night last night, the panties re-appeared this morning. I knew it was coming as last night she'd more than teased me that she'll be with her "other lover" later this week. This was something we'd talked about, at one point I had told her that it was hot that she'd be fucking three different guys this week. I'm seeing that as something she does - using stuff that turned me/us on again. Sorry, I digress... (I do find it relaxing to write/post here). But as it's a Wednesday, Sue has gone to bed already and I will have some fun after I complete this post.
She wouldn't share much in specific details of her time with Brad. I sort of didn't expect her to, and to be honest, I think if she shared how emotional she probably felt with him, I might not like to hear it even though I do know how they were. She did say that she felt like she was his for the night and she also said that she seems to be able to slip out of her mom/wife role more easily. She saw my reaction and she said that it doesn't mean anything about us. I don't recall exactly how it was said though, there was more to it than just that but I understood what she was saying and I told her something being okay with it as long as it stays under control and I know to that she replied that I will "always be hers".
I knew this was going to happen sooner or later, that she would be able to slip into being "his girlfriend" - be it Brad, Don or whoever may be in the future. It's a very intense feeling - to know you are letting go of her for that period of time.
She did share that they, as she put it, "fucked a lot". I told her it must have been good and she said that she felt very fulfilled and at one point last night she said that she felt very natural and very much at ease with Brad even after not being together for so long. I told her that I am sure he felt the same way about her as she did about him "you shared a lot with him" and I told her that I knew that he would be the same as she'd said she'd be about her boyfriend that was her first sex partner. She giggled and couldn't believe that I'd remembered what she'd said about him - that she would probably always have a sweet spot for him and she had admitted that she probably wouldn't be able to resist if he wanted her again. I know that's how she is, that's what I knew when we first got together - she'd fuck you if she really felt like there was a future and that she liked you.
But getting back to where we were, she kept it going for a bit in our foreplay and her teasing about having to "cover up after tonight" or "being his" for the rest of the week. It wasn't until a sweaty climax for both of us that as we lay there I asked her what she was going to tell Don? She told me she wasn't going to bring it up but if he asked she said she was going to tell him and answer whatever he asked. This was like a calm, lying-on-the-bed-catching-your-breath conversation, so I just told her that she may not want to be quite so honest with him. She turned to look at me as if to ask me what I meant and I just said (and I'm laughing thinking about now) "I don't think he's going to want to hear how much Brad fucked you or came in you" - and I just said it so calmly - it was weird but we'd just had this pretty intense physical fuck that it just felt comfortable. She half-giggled back and just said "duh". I kind of realized I'd been pretty blunt and I added that I meant I didn't think she should play up how strongly she felt about Brad and to that she asked what I meant and I just said that Don might not like knowing she was so able to just go back with Brad, kind of suggesting that she might want to make him think she might even have regretted it.
It sounds crazy now, me giving my wife pointers on how to handle her boyfriend?! But like I said, sometimes in that afterglow moment you can just talk. The thing about it was she seemed like she was in the same place - and it had to feel the same way to her - her asking me?! Maybe I'll bring it up with her one day.
Anyway - since I know people here want to know, she fucked Brad a lot. Between Sunday and last night she shared that at times he was "in her" while they weren't even fucking - at one point last night she told me they'd watched some TV like that! I know she must have felt my cock double in size at that comment! She said she'd forgotten how gentle he could be at times and how "wonderful he is with his tongue". Now that was an intense moment - hearing her tell me how good he is at licking and eating her pussy. She told me she didn't know how many times they'd fucked - but she did say that he didn't cum every time which totally sent my mind in a million directions. I can tell you that from how she felt when I finally had my time with her on Sunday that she had been quite active. Her whole pussy was gently swollen, not inflamed at all, but engorged might be the better word. Her lips parted with the slightest stimulation. I can't begin to explain how intensely arousing it was to watch her arousal build and see her pull her knees back letting me see where Brad had been in her. Something about seeing the glistening wetness just inside her vagina, knowing there was more inside her - from him. It sounds crazy but the thought of her orgasming on his cock - her taking him inside her and then seeing her arching her back as she would cum under him. I pulled her open more and saw inside her - a thin creamy liquid was still in her. I put my finger in her and could feel what was still there from their time earlier.
I would say that perhaps that is a defining moment of being a cuckold - to feel another mans cum in your wife's vagina and for you to respond like I did - with fiercely intense arousal. Even now when I say it to myself or write it here - that it still sounds crazy that I like that my wife fucks other guys. But I do. Knowing she gave all of herself to Brad - it feels good to me to know she did it because she wanted to. I fuck her all the time - I know how it feels, I know that closeness and intimacy. I still feel it every time - but it is such a turn on to know that another man has felt it too. She wouldn't say yes or no so I didn't ask, but it wouldn't surprise me if he'd cum in her at least 4 times. I also remembered that she'd many times let Brad fuck her a second or third time when they were together even if it'd take a long time or he'd barely cum - what I remembered was that she loved giving herself to him to let him feel that with her. It actually made me smile as I too enjoy that with her when we're alone or able to get away - something about "squeezing that last one" out - and I knew from how we would feel afterwards, that she also felt that with Brad - as she'd explained it - she just gives herself to us and lets us do what we want to or need to in order to get off that last time. She said it makes her feel very special to do that for him.
Anyway - I think I've written enough. We are back in our weekly routine now and I joked with Sue that it'd better not snow this week like last week or poor Don may have to wait even longer!
To answer ZHershey - no, I don't take Viagra. To be honest, I did feel a bit sluggish a few months ago but just over 2 months ago I put myself on some new vitamins from Vitamin Shoppe called "Especially Men" as well as some other supplements and I have to say that I do think they've had an effect. That, plus I - actually we - do exercise usually 4-5 days a week. We've got an imitation Bowflex type machine, a nice recumbent stationary exercise bike and, don't laugh, a Wii. I do believe exercise has a positive effect on sex-drive - I think we are both evidence of that.
It's a Wednesday and we've returned to our pattern - after a rousing night last night, the panties re-appeared this morning. I knew it was coming as last night she'd more than teased me that she'll be with her "other lover" later this week. This was something we'd talked about, at one point I had told her that it was hot that she'd be fucking three different guys this week. I'm seeing that as something she does - using stuff that turned me/us on again. Sorry, I digress... (I do find it relaxing to write/post here). But as it's a Wednesday, Sue has gone to bed already and I will have some fun after I complete this post.
She wouldn't share much in specific details of her time with Brad. I sort of didn't expect her to, and to be honest, I think if she shared how emotional she probably felt with him, I might not like to hear it even though I do know how they were. She did say that she felt like she was his for the night and she also said that she seems to be able to slip out of her mom/wife role more easily. She saw my reaction and she said that it doesn't mean anything about us. I don't recall exactly how it was said though, there was more to it than just that but I understood what she was saying and I told her something being okay with it as long as it stays under control and I know to that she replied that I will "always be hers".
I knew this was going to happen sooner or later, that she would be able to slip into being "his girlfriend" - be it Brad, Don or whoever may be in the future. It's a very intense feeling - to know you are letting go of her for that period of time.
She did share that they, as she put it, "fucked a lot". I told her it must have been good and she said that she felt very fulfilled and at one point last night she said that she felt very natural and very much at ease with Brad even after not being together for so long. I told her that I am sure he felt the same way about her as she did about him "you shared a lot with him" and I told her that I knew that he would be the same as she'd said she'd be about her boyfriend that was her first sex partner. She giggled and couldn't believe that I'd remembered what she'd said about him - that she would probably always have a sweet spot for him and she had admitted that she probably wouldn't be able to resist if he wanted her again. I know that's how she is, that's what I knew when we first got together - she'd fuck you if she really felt like there was a future and that she liked you.
But getting back to where we were, she kept it going for a bit in our foreplay and her teasing about having to "cover up after tonight" or "being his" for the rest of the week. It wasn't until a sweaty climax for both of us that as we lay there I asked her what she was going to tell Don? She told me she wasn't going to bring it up but if he asked she said she was going to tell him and answer whatever he asked. This was like a calm, lying-on-the-bed-catching-your-breath conversation, so I just told her that she may not want to be quite so honest with him. She turned to look at me as if to ask me what I meant and I just said (and I'm laughing thinking about now) "I don't think he's going to want to hear how much Brad fucked you or came in you" - and I just said it so calmly - it was weird but we'd just had this pretty intense physical fuck that it just felt comfortable. She half-giggled back and just said "duh". I kind of realized I'd been pretty blunt and I added that I meant I didn't think she should play up how strongly she felt about Brad and to that she asked what I meant and I just said that Don might not like knowing she was so able to just go back with Brad, kind of suggesting that she might want to make him think she might even have regretted it.
It sounds crazy now, me giving my wife pointers on how to handle her boyfriend?! But like I said, sometimes in that afterglow moment you can just talk. The thing about it was she seemed like she was in the same place - and it had to feel the same way to her - her asking me?! Maybe I'll bring it up with her one day.
Anyway - since I know people here want to know, she fucked Brad a lot. Between Sunday and last night she shared that at times he was "in her" while they weren't even fucking - at one point last night she told me they'd watched some TV like that! I know she must have felt my cock double in size at that comment! She said she'd forgotten how gentle he could be at times and how "wonderful he is with his tongue". Now that was an intense moment - hearing her tell me how good he is at licking and eating her pussy. She told me she didn't know how many times they'd fucked - but she did say that he didn't cum every time which totally sent my mind in a million directions. I can tell you that from how she felt when I finally had my time with her on Sunday that she had been quite active. Her whole pussy was gently swollen, not inflamed at all, but engorged might be the better word. Her lips parted with the slightest stimulation. I can't begin to explain how intensely arousing it was to watch her arousal build and see her pull her knees back letting me see where Brad had been in her. Something about seeing the glistening wetness just inside her vagina, knowing there was more inside her - from him. It sounds crazy but the thought of her orgasming on his cock - her taking him inside her and then seeing her arching her back as she would cum under him. I pulled her open more and saw inside her - a thin creamy liquid was still in her. I put my finger in her and could feel what was still there from their time earlier.
I would say that perhaps that is a defining moment of being a cuckold - to feel another mans cum in your wife's vagina and for you to respond like I did - with fiercely intense arousal. Even now when I say it to myself or write it here - that it still sounds crazy that I like that my wife fucks other guys. But I do. Knowing she gave all of herself to Brad - it feels good to me to know she did it because she wanted to. I fuck her all the time - I know how it feels, I know that closeness and intimacy. I still feel it every time - but it is such a turn on to know that another man has felt it too. She wouldn't say yes or no so I didn't ask, but it wouldn't surprise me if he'd cum in her at least 4 times. I also remembered that she'd many times let Brad fuck her a second or third time when they were together even if it'd take a long time or he'd barely cum - what I remembered was that she loved giving herself to him to let him feel that with her. It actually made me smile as I too enjoy that with her when we're alone or able to get away - something about "squeezing that last one" out - and I knew from how we would feel afterwards, that she also felt that with Brad - as she'd explained it - she just gives herself to us and lets us do what we want to or need to in order to get off that last time. She said it makes her feel very special to do that for him.
Anyway - I think I've written enough. We are back in our weekly routine now and I joked with Sue that it'd better not snow this week like last week or poor Don may have to wait even longer!
To answer ZHershey - no, I don't take Viagra. To be honest, I did feel a bit sluggish a few months ago but just over 2 months ago I put myself on some new vitamins from Vitamin Shoppe called "Especially Men" as well as some other supplements and I have to say that I do think they've had an effect. That, plus I - actually we - do exercise usually 4-5 days a week. We've got an imitation Bowflex type machine, a nice recumbent stationary exercise bike and, don't laugh, a Wii. I do believe exercise has a positive effect on sex-drive - I think we are both evidence of that.
Thank you for the update Stb. From what you've said, you are happy with the emotional situation and happy for your wife having her lovers.It also seems to be a huge turn on for the both of you which is marvellous.The most important thing in a relationship is understanding, and you seem to understand her while she knows how far she can go. Thank you for sharing you thoughts with us.
Thanks
I thank you as well for the update. It was very kind of you to give Sue some suggestions as to how to relate to Don. He will, no doubt, make a very serious attempt at "reclaiming her" much as you do when she comes home to you. Sue may be in for a very busy, demanding evening. Have you ever considered, if she comes home tired, just licking her clean and letting her go to sleep? Might be very hot as well as very considerate. You know you could have her if you wanted.
You have mentioned that both you and Sue know Don sees other women. It may be he is most attracted to the one woman he can't really "have" Your's.
I am sure you all are certain that your cover story for Friday nights is still holding with the kids. Just a bit different than the schedule with Brad, which was more afternoon/evening. It has been my experience they really do notice things, particularly daughters.
Women seem to want to "belong" to someone. For the brief time Sue is with Don or Brad, she may have to achieve that mindset, even temporarily, or she couldn't do it. I think her statements after you were able to stay with her and Brad let her know you were truely accepting of the situation. She probably does enjoy her time with Don when she is out for dinner or at his local. However, when you join them, particularly in a public setting, like his bar, there may be tiny coner of her mind telling her she is doing something a bit"wrong" Your presence may cause her Mommy/Wife side to creep back in. The fact she is able to continue her flirting and acting as his "girlfriend" when you are there is hot as hell.
Thank you for indulging my thoughts and comments. I would never wish to offend or presume I know you or Sue's motivations. I have been down this road a few times and am very familiar with the benefits and the pitfalls. Thaks again for the update.
I thank you as well for the update. It was very kind of you to give Sue some suggestions as to how to relate to Don. He will, no doubt, make a very serious attempt at "reclaiming her" much as you do when she comes home to you. Sue may be in for a very busy, demanding evening. Have you ever considered, if she comes home tired, just licking her clean and letting her go to sleep? Might be very hot as well as very considerate. You know you could have her if you wanted.
You have mentioned that both you and Sue know Don sees other women. It may be he is most attracted to the one woman he can't really "have" Your's.
I am sure you all are certain that your cover story for Friday nights is still holding with the kids. Just a bit different than the schedule with Brad, which was more afternoon/evening. It has been my experience they really do notice things, particularly daughters.
Women seem to want to "belong" to someone. For the brief time Sue is with Don or Brad, she may have to achieve that mindset, even temporarily, or she couldn't do it. I think her statements after you were able to stay with her and Brad let her know you were truely accepting of the situation. She probably does enjoy her time with Don when she is out for dinner or at his local. However, when you join them, particularly in a public setting, like his bar, there may be tiny coner of her mind telling her she is doing something a bit"wrong" Your presence may cause her Mommy/Wife side to creep back in. The fact she is able to continue her flirting and acting as his "girlfriend" when you are there is hot as hell.
Thank you for indulging my thoughts and comments. I would never wish to offend or presume I know you or Sue's motivations. I have been down this road a few times and am very familiar with the benefits and the pitfalls. Thaks again for the update.
from JONCONDON:
"I thank you as well for the update. It was very kind of you to give Sue some suggestions as to how to relate to Don. He will, no doubt, make a very serious attempt at "reclaiming her" much as you do when she comes home to you. Sue may be in for a very busy, demanding evening. Have you ever considered, if she comes home tired..."
STB, You can be sure that Don will try to 'reclaim' Sue in his own way tonight. From what you have described in the past His way will involve "rough Sex" Although she apparently accepts and enjoys it, I suggest She will come home worn and tired.
Harry
"I thank you as well for the update. It was very kind of you to give Sue some suggestions as to how to relate to Don. He will, no doubt, make a very serious attempt at "reclaiming her" much as you do when she comes home to you. Sue may be in for a very busy, demanding evening. Have you ever considered, if she comes home tired..."
STB, You can be sure that Don will try to 'reclaim' Sue in his own way tonight. From what you have described in the past His way will involve "rough Sex" Although she apparently accepts and enjoys it, I suggest She will come home worn and tired.
Harry
SoonToBe said:
Thanks for continuing to share your story with us. I don't know that I could ever match your level of enthusiasm and excitement for being a cuckold. Maybe, but maybe not. I do know that my wife and I are close to your ages and share many of the the same life challenges.
I also know that I want her to be free to have extra-marital sex - because she wants to. Of course, I've always told her that and she has yet to show any real interest. I think it would bring us many of the benefits you and Sue have experienced, but I know there would also be many challenges.
Thanks again for sharing part of your life with us. Please keep us posted and we'll keep reading.
Hello all - sorry but the weekend just got away from us and time is very constrained today too as work is continuing it's insanity this week.
In brief for now - Sue said that Friday night was a bit tense as Don wasn't happy to learn about her and Brad. Despite my advice to the contrary, Sue shared much with Don that I'd suggested she not do. Needless to say, it led to quite a bit of an argument for them - followed by what she said was Don's extremely physical fucking of her. On top of all of that, it was the first time that he's given her hickeys (at least that's what we called them) - not on her neck which she would have killed him for - but on her breasts and on her legs near her pussy. She said he just did it and she didn't really know until afterwards. She said he said he felt like it was his was of re-claiming her.
She also said several times how he didn't like to know that she'd fucked Brad bare - in his words "it's bad enough your husband does, but now another guy too!!!".
And yes - she was quite tender when she came home Friday night. She said my gentle oral attention helped her relax enough to let me have a "quickie" with her as that is all she felt she could take "just be quick" were her exact words. I let her watch me masturbate a bit - seeing her reddened swollen pussy was enough visual stimulation to get me almost there such that when I did enter her, it was just for the last little bit I needed to get off. I swear her pussy felt like it was on fire, but even so it only took me but a few short strokes to let loose!. She was much more comfortable Saturday night - more on that later.
In brief for now - Sue said that Friday night was a bit tense as Don wasn't happy to learn about her and Brad. Despite my advice to the contrary, Sue shared much with Don that I'd suggested she not do. Needless to say, it led to quite a bit of an argument for them - followed by what she said was Don's extremely physical fucking of her. On top of all of that, it was the first time that he's given her hickeys (at least that's what we called them) - not on her neck which she would have killed him for - but on her breasts and on her legs near her pussy. She said he just did it and she didn't really know until afterwards. She said he said he felt like it was his was of re-claiming her.
She also said several times how he didn't like to know that she'd fucked Brad bare - in his words "it's bad enough your husband does, but now another guy too!!!".
And yes - she was quite tender when she came home Friday night. She said my gentle oral attention helped her relax enough to let me have a "quickie" with her as that is all she felt she could take "just be quick" were her exact words. I let her watch me masturbate a bit - seeing her reddened swollen pussy was enough visual stimulation to get me almost there such that when I did enter her, it was just for the last little bit I needed to get off. I swear her pussy felt like it was on fire, but even so it only took me but a few short strokes to let loose!. She was much more comfortable Saturday night - more on that later.
Fri. Nite with Don
Used hard and put away wet is what it sounds like. I'm suprised he didn't 'spank her butt' red too and tell her she couldn't have sex with anyone including you until he has her next Fri. But we will see how much determination Sue has to 'have it her way'. She may have to cut Don off to show him he is not her boss. This should be interesting!!
Cheers, Harry
Used hard and put away wet is what it sounds like. I'm suprised he didn't 'spank her butt' red too and tell her she couldn't have sex with anyone including you until he has her next Fri. But we will see how much determination Sue has to 'have it her way'. She may have to cut Don off to show him he is not her boss. This should be interesting!!
Cheers, Harry
It seems she now truly enjoys having lovers, it has become natural to her.
The fact that men are jealous of her is a natural outgrowth of wanting to claim her for themselves, but the fact is she is a liberated woman now, and she sleeps with whom she pleases, and although she may develop tender feelings for them, it remains her call.
The fact that men are jealous of her is a natural outgrowth of wanting to claim her for themselves, but the fact is she is a liberated woman now, and she sleeps with whom she pleases, and although she may develop tender feelings for them, it remains her call.
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duke9555
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Ballspanking said:It seems she now truly enjoys having lovers, it has become natural to her.
The fact that men are jealous of her is a natural outgrowth of wanting to claim her for themselves, but the fact is she is a liberated woman now, and she sleeps with whom she pleases, and although she may develop tender feelings for them, it remains her call.
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one hopes Sue's well used vagina isn't
becoming a cesspool of harmful microbes
STD 4 STB? let's pray not
STB,
Hello guy.
It must be difficult trying to put in a days work with all that is going on now. Sue coming home worn out from banging and hickeys, tells me that there is a lot of submissiveness in her persona. Some time back it was suggested that she cut Don loose because of his attitude toward you enjoying your own wife. You said it was her call. Hmmm. Don’s latest comment about “It’s bad enough for her husband to cum in her, let alone another man”, tells me she is liberated to some extinct, but is being very submissive toward her lovers.
Why would she put up with comments like the one that Don laid on her last Friday? The message to me is she is not showing respect for you. Whatever, we really enjoy your up dates.
Thanks for keeping up in the loop.
zhershey
Hello guy.
It must be difficult trying to put in a days work with all that is going on now. Sue coming home worn out from banging and hickeys, tells me that there is a lot of submissiveness in her persona. Some time back it was suggested that she cut Don loose because of his attitude toward you enjoying your own wife. You said it was her call. Hmmm. Don’s latest comment about “It’s bad enough for her husband to cum in her, let alone another man”, tells me she is liberated to some extinct, but is being very submissive toward her lovers.
Why would she put up with comments like the one that Don laid on her last Friday? The message to me is she is not showing respect for you. Whatever, we really enjoy your up dates.
Thanks for keeping up in the loop.
zhershey
Vitamins & Suppliments
To answer ZHershey - no, I don't take Viagra. To be honest, I did feel a bit sluggish a few months ago but just over 2 months ago I put myself on some new vitamins from Vitamin Shoppe called "Especially Men" as well as some other supplements and I have to say that I do think they've had an effect. That, plus I - actually we - do exercise usually 4-5 days a week. We've got an imitation Bowflex type machine, a nice recumbent stationary exercise bike and, don't laugh, a Wii. I do believe exercise has a positive effect on sex-drive - I think we are both evidence of that.
I would guess that all the suppliments in the store wouldn't do much good if you didn't have a HOT wife like SUE to to keep your 'mental vitamins' flowing!! I just keep being amazed and turned on by your highly erotic thread STB.
Cheers, Harry
To answer ZHershey - no, I don't take Viagra. To be honest, I did feel a bit sluggish a few months ago but just over 2 months ago I put myself on some new vitamins from Vitamin Shoppe called "Especially Men" as well as some other supplements and I have to say that I do think they've had an effect. That, plus I - actually we - do exercise usually 4-5 days a week. We've got an imitation Bowflex type machine, a nice recumbent stationary exercise bike and, don't laugh, a Wii. I do believe exercise has a positive effect on sex-drive - I think we are both evidence of that.
I would guess that all the suppliments in the store wouldn't do much good if you didn't have a HOT wife like SUE to to keep your 'mental vitamins' flowing!! I just keep being amazed and turned on by your highly erotic thread STB.
Cheers, Harry
That didn't go well did it! What I meant to write was:
I would guess that all the suppliments in the store wouldn't do much good if you didn't have a HOT WIFE like SUE to to keep your 'mental vitamins' flowing!! I just keep being amazed and turned on by your highly erotic thread STB. (i'll just have to learn how to work those avatars better)
Cheers, Harry
I would guess that all the suppliments in the store wouldn't do much good if you didn't have a HOT WIFE like SUE to to keep your 'mental vitamins' flowing!! I just keep being amazed and turned on by your highly erotic thread STB. (i'll just have to learn how to work those avatars better)
Cheers, Harry
Hey all - just a quick update for now as a friend literally just called and said "hey - want to go to the Devils/Rangers game tonight?" - so instead of sitting home masturbating tonight I'm heading out and no doubt we'll hit a strip club on the way home - so it WILL be later tonight that I have my fun....
To answer the last question - yes, in many ways it has become much eaiser for me to accept and embrace that Sue likes to fuck other guys. I really don't have the same sense of angst that I used to get while waiting for her. Of course it also helps greatly that she's always been accomodating to my needs and desires even if she is tired or would rather go to sleep than have sex with me. She has told me many times that she knows it is important to me mentally and emotionally that I am able to have her afterwards and reconnect with her. I guess that's one of the reasons I love her as I do and why this seems to be working for us.
To answer the last question - yes, in many ways it has become much eaiser for me to accept and embrace that Sue likes to fuck other guys. I really don't have the same sense of angst that I used to get while waiting for her. Of course it also helps greatly that she's always been accomodating to my needs and desires even if she is tired or would rather go to sleep than have sex with me. She has told me many times that she knows it is important to me mentally and emotionally that I am able to have her afterwards and reconnect with her. I guess that's one of the reasons I love her as I do and why this seems to be working for us.
"always been accomodating to my needs and desires even if she is tired or would rather go to sleep than have sex with me." Sue's attitude is so wise. As long as you don't feel that you are getting mercy fucks, it will work for you. Also, the submissive thing; there may be a time when her boyfriend makes her cut you off altogether. Enjoy.
