Sue and Robert
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Will, according to Sue, (through Steve) he only wants to have sex with her, relieve her frustration, and to actually HELP Sue & Steve's marriage.
But, as I said previously, Robert is not going to jeopardize what he 'wants,' by saying what he really wants, even if he knows at this point.
Nor would any man. You, I, (DOM or not). When you get a woman like Sue who feels. "Wonderful" with you, and wants to fall in love with you, Hell, just enjoy what it is and don't ask too many questions!!!
Cheers, Harry
But, as I said previously, Robert is not going to jeopardize what he 'wants,' by saying what he really wants, even if he knows at this point.
Nor would any man. You, I, (DOM or not). When you get a woman like Sue who feels. "Wonderful" with you, and wants to fall in love with you, Hell, just enjoy what it is and don't ask too many questions!!!
Cheers, Harry
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I have to say that it is a strange, and yes erotic, feeling to come here and see all the discussion about my wife. But it is the bed we've made so-to-speak.
Harry has it correct - that is all I can say about Robert, what Sue's shared with me. I don't really have a reason to not believe her. I know that long ago after my and Sue's divorces - that we both did find ourselves in bed with many different people. I suppose, thinking back to how I felt back then - that a willing partner who'd fulfill my sexual desires would have been VERY welcome. I can see how with the health issues, why this might be something that Robert would definitely want now.
I think perhaps that it's some of these thoughts that are behind my willingness to let her go with him.
There's not a whole lot more I can really share right now. When I spoke to her earlier today she let me know that she was "definitely" going to see him this week and that they were discussing possibly Thursday instead of Friday - she asked me if I minded and I obviously told her no, that either day was okay with me.
Will, I like your optimism on Sue's desires just being mainly physical, but I am also aware that she hasn't wavered from what she feels about him so far. Not that she's shared all that much, but there is some obviousness that she has more than just a sexual desire with him. I can't be specific about it right now, but she's still indicating that she'd like, eventually, to have it go further than just sex. It's mainly in how she talks about him and how they are together - there's a lot of "we" and "us" when she talks about him. It's actually quite erotic to see her arousal for him at times - sometimes she'll seem to wander off mentally with this smile on her face and this almost-guilty look on her face when she realizes.
Hiki - there's been no mention of them seeing each other more often - but I know it is coming.
It is definitely a different feeling not knowing who Robert is. It's incredibly erotic to know that I could run into him and not even know that he's the one fucking her. She hasn't told me of all of her past lovers and it had always turned me on that I could have known or run into one of them at some point. I don't believe she's told him that I know when they are getting together - at this point he believes, as you stated, that I'm looking-the-other-way about her time with him and that's all.
Peak - in my heart I think I will always believe that if I said "stop" with enough meaning and intent - that she would listen to me. You are most definitely correct - the further this goes, the more difficult that may become and the more she may not heed my request. But those are bridges we need to cross when we come to them and all I can do is what I've done so far - make sure she agrees (and remembers) about that agreement.
Your last statement is something that does have relevance. Our son announced that he will NOT be home much of this summer. He's gotten himself into an apartment at school such that I'm going to have to pay rent through the summer - and he's found himself a job for the summer up there. That leaves just our daughter home this summer - and she already has 3-4 weeks/weekend trips planned in addition to her working part-time. So yes, this is also in the back of my mind - that the play that's been set in motion now may have the summer to develop over too. I fully expect that if this romance with Robert continues, that when the kids are away, that she may very well spend much more time with him.
But before I click to post this update - I did want to comment on the thought that I'd shared and that I've heard Sue echo - that in another year and a half or so until our daughter is away at college - that all of this might get toned down a bit. I do still get the feeling that she too may be feeling an end being in-sight, especially in some of the comments she's made about Robert being "for now". I am actually a bit on-the-fence about this summer now that we may have a taste of the both of them (our kids) not being home at the same time.
Anyway - gotta run.
Harry has it correct - that is all I can say about Robert, what Sue's shared with me. I don't really have a reason to not believe her. I know that long ago after my and Sue's divorces - that we both did find ourselves in bed with many different people. I suppose, thinking back to how I felt back then - that a willing partner who'd fulfill my sexual desires would have been VERY welcome. I can see how with the health issues, why this might be something that Robert would definitely want now.
I think perhaps that it's some of these thoughts that are behind my willingness to let her go with him.
There's not a whole lot more I can really share right now. When I spoke to her earlier today she let me know that she was "definitely" going to see him this week and that they were discussing possibly Thursday instead of Friday - she asked me if I minded and I obviously told her no, that either day was okay with me.
Will, I like your optimism on Sue's desires just being mainly physical, but I am also aware that she hasn't wavered from what she feels about him so far. Not that she's shared all that much, but there is some obviousness that she has more than just a sexual desire with him. I can't be specific about it right now, but she's still indicating that she'd like, eventually, to have it go further than just sex. It's mainly in how she talks about him and how they are together - there's a lot of "we" and "us" when she talks about him. It's actually quite erotic to see her arousal for him at times - sometimes she'll seem to wander off mentally with this smile on her face and this almost-guilty look on her face when she realizes.
Hiki - there's been no mention of them seeing each other more often - but I know it is coming.
It is definitely a different feeling not knowing who Robert is. It's incredibly erotic to know that I could run into him and not even know that he's the one fucking her. She hasn't told me of all of her past lovers and it had always turned me on that I could have known or run into one of them at some point. I don't believe she's told him that I know when they are getting together - at this point he believes, as you stated, that I'm looking-the-other-way about her time with him and that's all.
Peak - in my heart I think I will always believe that if I said "stop" with enough meaning and intent - that she would listen to me. You are most definitely correct - the further this goes, the more difficult that may become and the more she may not heed my request. But those are bridges we need to cross when we come to them and all I can do is what I've done so far - make sure she agrees (and remembers) about that agreement.
Your last statement is something that does have relevance. Our son announced that he will NOT be home much of this summer. He's gotten himself into an apartment at school such that I'm going to have to pay rent through the summer - and he's found himself a job for the summer up there. That leaves just our daughter home this summer - and she already has 3-4 weeks/weekend trips planned in addition to her working part-time. So yes, this is also in the back of my mind - that the play that's been set in motion now may have the summer to develop over too. I fully expect that if this romance with Robert continues, that when the kids are away, that she may very well spend much more time with him.
But before I click to post this update - I did want to comment on the thought that I'd shared and that I've heard Sue echo - that in another year and a half or so until our daughter is away at college - that all of this might get toned down a bit. I do still get the feeling that she too may be feeling an end being in-sight, especially in some of the comments she's made about Robert being "for now". I am actually a bit on-the-fence about this summer now that we may have a taste of the both of them (our kids) not being home at the same time.
Anyway - gotta run.
SoonToBe said:
Sorry Stevie I guess I just too old. Or I have just seen too many trains go off the tracks. To believe in that kind of LOVE. LUST YES!!! Love no. Rainbows and Gliter. Sue wants to believe She's in love. Then We Come Back To Robert??? Just what does Robert feel and want???
Its going to be long summer folks. Everyone straped in nice and tight????
My assessment is that Sue will never walk out on her marriage, but having lovers will be something her and her husband will always enjoy. At times, she will sleep with her lover exclusively for a few months at a time, then there will be the intense emotions of having sex with her husband again. She has already admitted that she loves watching her hubby masturbate with his right hand while he is imagining he can't have sex with his wife for a long time.
STB: Just started on this thread - I agree that Sue won't leave you, and also feel that deep down she needs a lover like she has found. have you told her how hot it was that her pussy has been stretched by Robert? Let me suggest that you wear condoms from now on - letting her know you are Ok with only Robert coming in her, and that can (depending) progress to her pussy being exclusively for him. Also consider getting her some sexy lingerie/thigh highs etc specifically to wear on a date with him....
