To take a few minutes to respond while I have my daughter busy downstairs with dinner....
Saraha - it's really up to Sue if she wants Robert to "mark her". I personally don't see the need for it as her wet pussy and satisfied look/attitude clearly express the same things. Sue is very sensitive about this sort of stuff in terms of work as it's just not something you see every day, a 50+ year old woman with hickies on her neck. Your suggestions about staying over are obviously off the table (do you actually read everything here?) as you know right now our daughter is at home with us. I have already said that later this summer, if our daughter goes away as she hopes to her girlfriend's summer cabin in Maine, that I expect Sue will most likely spend a lot more time with him and I'm already preparing mentally for when she will want to spend the night.
Harry - perhaps a bit more explanation is in order. We'd long lost contact with Phyllis until she and Sue located each other on Facebook. As I understand it, that led her to more clearly remember the conversations from long ago. And regarding her comment about thinking of me as a girlfriend - it was actually just the opposite. That she said she merely needed to think of how she would share this type of talk with a girlfriend and direct it towards me. It was not an uncomfortable situation, but in how she talked to me, she emphasized more of the "female side" of the experience instead of a more graphic description that I might have liked to have heard. In the past she'd focused on more explicit and more physical aspects of their time together, but this time she described it more as, at least I thought and took it to mean, that she described it more as how she'd talk to her closest girlfriend. I don't think women describe their sexual encounters quite as graphically as guys will. I know that to me she seemed to describe more of how she felt than what he did.
Peak. Again your post has really struck me and it makes sense. I do want to give her this freedom. As crazy as it sounds - I truly want to experience this with her (or is it without her?) - that I know she is sexual with him but not with me. But your thought that I should demonstrate that I want her is something that I've thought about but never was able to attach the "why" to it. It makes sense to me - thank you for putting it in a way that it sank into me - but I like it. I like the thought and feeling it conveys and I do realize that - as I'm thinking about it right now - that it may be something she wants to feel from me too - that despite what we are "experimenting" with - that I do still want her as my sexual partner. I suspect she is expressing, in a way, this same feeling/desire to me by her almost insistence at us having sex together again this weekend much as she felt before Memorial Day weekend. It is interesting that I now understand a bit more of her desire in this same way and I agree very much. And I do value your sentiments in the second paragraph - it is why I want her to feel she can talk to me (and I want her to) so that when this day comes - and you are correct, it will - even she knows it - but when it comes, that we'll both be aware of it's approach and that hopefully, I can ease that crash afterwards.
CSC - I can't say we've specifically talked about it - whether had we started this earlier, how we'd have dealt with a pregnancy - either accidental or intentional - but it is also foolish to say that neither of us thought about it as I expect she was still fertile, although waning, when she was seeing Brad. I think I've admitted, as part of an exchange with Hiki, that yes, something like that is arousing to think about in the sexual aspect of things and to have the knowledge of what she did with another man - but the part about responsibilities beyond that are where the fantasy ends and is a non-starter for me. But had all of this started 10 or 20 years earlier, if all were the same, then I can't say I wouldn't have been a hot fantasy - and perhaps, in an ideal situation, perhaps both/either of us would have let it happen. It's hard to say. In the abstract - the idea is very arousing - as I said - thinking/knowing another man made her pregnant would be incredibly arousing - perhaps the ultimate in cuckolding. But fantasy and reality sometimes are close, and other times, like this idea, are far far apart in terms of something to be planned. I do know and think back to my encouragement for Sue to have sex with Brad before me after she had her IUD put in is perhaps the closest I've allowed myself to let fantasy and reality get close to each other. I know that, even now to this day, is something that turned me on. Perhaps this was a part of it.
More later.