Hey all - I'm sorry that there just hasn't been time in the past few days to update here but the recent posts by everyone have been very interesting to read. Some of what you've all said is very accurate and in being honest, it's what I think I struggle with in my own head.
To Peakmb and the suggestion that we talk after sex and not before - that's a good one and it is something I have begun to listen to. I do know that before we have sex, even if it's days before, that I am willing to give in to and say things that perhaps, after sex, would be things that I wouldn't give in to so freely or agreeably. But then again, after sex there are other things that work the opposite way. To be honest, the whole marital bed thing seems like less of an issue to me after we've had sex - as if I'm saying to myself "what IS the big deal if she does Don in our bed?" Yet at other times, when I am horned up and eager for sex with her, somehow that thought bothers me much more.
To be honest about your question of whether I am excited or not about Don coming to our house. I am looking at it beyond just Don and Sue - that I've seen many times before and I do look forward to seeing her toes curl as she experiences sex with him, I am truly looking forward to being able (finally) to plunge into her right after he's done. I have wanted this opportunity for a long time - perhaps even more so since he has such an issue about Sue and I at his place. So, for that aspect alone, if nothing else - I do want him to come here.
Going in order - to ShiDave - it's not until next Friday, the 16th that he's coming here. As of now Sue is planning on seeing him tomorrow as usual however, she did mention to me this morning that things may be up in the air - apparently his sister-in-law has taken a turn for the worse and from what she's said to me, there is little chance of recovery. She mentioned that he may be going out to California tomorrow or Saturday.
To JoeCondon - her pillow talk with me was just that, directed at the whole marital-bed thing.
In your second post on 7/6, you asked about Sue's timing of her return home to coincide with mine. I've said this before that this is one of the things that I see that others here apparently don't see all the time - but to me, there is no mistaking her desire to come home to me and to share the fun of her evening with me. But in general, we do try to time it such that we get home around the same time (or without much gap between) - it began as a way to minimize the issues with the kids but now I believe it's something that she/we look forward to.
Jax - you asked about Sue sharing details with me. To be honest, I don't necessarily need to hear all the explicit details any more. Of course she tells me generally what went on - she continues to enjoy telling me if he'd cum more than once too! But I have to say that, lately, it is much more her actions in terms of her brazenly showing me the results of her evening fun (basically spreading her legs and letting me see how wet and used she is) as well as just sensing her arousal and pleasure. Of course as we get started on our own fun she will add in details to spur me on and excite her anew too. But it is very much something that I feel between her and I lately and that it IS true, I don't necessarily need to hear all the details.
Does it worry me that I don't know all of what went on? No, not really. I dare say that it even excites me a little bit to let my mind fill in the gaps in what she's said to me. I realize that this can go further to where I may not know much of what went on between them. I think I'll have to cross that bridge when I get to it, but right now it doesn't concern me that much.
Jax - you asked if Don "marks" her in any way. Harry did fill this in a bit - but Sue has never really been into hickies or that sorts of things. Still, I can say that there are times when her breasts seem reddened and her nipples seem positively inflamed that I know Don has been sucking at them. I've seen her butt reddened - either from "carpet burns" or maybe even from Don giving her a playful swat. I am sure she's shared with him that sometimes she'll enjoy it if I spank her a bit. I wonder if she's shared with him that she enjoys me spanking her pussy too?
I see that the last parts of this thread seem to be contemplating Don's perspective on all of this. To be honest, I'm thankful that he's been as considerate and accomodating as he has been. As Harry pointed out, I wasn't totally aware of many bull's preference/desire - or even men in general - to not have other guys cumming in their partner. As I said, it never got to this with Brad and I'd been thinking it was a unique thing with Don - but apparently it's not. So, in a sense, he's been okay about that - but then again, I don't think Sue would have gone along with that either.
Before I sign off for now - and hopefully have time later on to continue my thoughts - last night was Wednesday and rather than my time alone on the computer, Sue asked me to "wait till later" last night. About 10:30pm we went up to the bedroom and Sue stood by the bed and as she changed for bed, she took off her panties and asked me if I'd like "the real thing" to masturbate to? I told her sure. She proceeded to lay back against the headboard and spread her legs apart. As she proceeded to masturbate herself she encouraged me on at the same time. At one point she pulled out a dildo from the nightstand and let me watch her fuck herself with it. It was dark-colored so I could see her wetness on it. She asked how I liked watching and when I told her it was incredibly erotic she said "just think how you'll like it next week". As I got closer she continued her teasing - telling me at times how Don was going to fuck her and how I should imagine it being his cock in her instead of her dildo. When I was really close she told me that I should move over closer to her and when I was ready, that I should cum on the dildo! I did my best and got a few spurts on it and as she pushed it back into her covered with my stuff - she reached orgasm herself! We both laughed at each other afterwards at what a mess we'd made and she asked me if I was "happy now". I laughed back and said "for now" and that's when she said that maybe I should do it again (masturbate again) in a little bit if I was still horny - and she even offered to help me!!!
Sure enough, she reached over about 20 minutes later and gave my cock a tug and when she felt it respond she said "are you ready?". I pulled the blankets down and let her watch me get it hard again and that's when she leaned over and said "I"ll help you" and she put her lips over the tip of my cock and gently started sucking. Basically she wanted me to masturbate into her mouth and she encouraged me by licking the tip and sucking at me as I got closer. When she knew I was about to burst she pushed my hand away and sucked me into her mouth. What a sensation!!!! I let loose with as big a load as I could for the 2nd time so quickly. She moaned and squealed but caught it all in her mouth and a moment later she moved up and kissed me passionately and snowballed with me. Feeling her tongue on mine spreading my cum around was quite erotic!!!
Anyway - more later - need to get ready for a 3:30pm conference call.
To Peakmb and the suggestion that we talk after sex and not before - that's a good one and it is something I have begun to listen to. I do know that before we have sex, even if it's days before, that I am willing to give in to and say things that perhaps, after sex, would be things that I wouldn't give in to so freely or agreeably. But then again, after sex there are other things that work the opposite way. To be honest, the whole marital bed thing seems like less of an issue to me after we've had sex - as if I'm saying to myself "what IS the big deal if she does Don in our bed?" Yet at other times, when I am horned up and eager for sex with her, somehow that thought bothers me much more.
To be honest about your question of whether I am excited or not about Don coming to our house. I am looking at it beyond just Don and Sue - that I've seen many times before and I do look forward to seeing her toes curl as she experiences sex with him, I am truly looking forward to being able (finally) to plunge into her right after he's done. I have wanted this opportunity for a long time - perhaps even more so since he has such an issue about Sue and I at his place. So, for that aspect alone, if nothing else - I do want him to come here.
Going in order - to ShiDave - it's not until next Friday, the 16th that he's coming here. As of now Sue is planning on seeing him tomorrow as usual however, she did mention to me this morning that things may be up in the air - apparently his sister-in-law has taken a turn for the worse and from what she's said to me, there is little chance of recovery. She mentioned that he may be going out to California tomorrow or Saturday.
To JoeCondon - her pillow talk with me was just that, directed at the whole marital-bed thing.
In your second post on 7/6, you asked about Sue's timing of her return home to coincide with mine. I've said this before that this is one of the things that I see that others here apparently don't see all the time - but to me, there is no mistaking her desire to come home to me and to share the fun of her evening with me. But in general, we do try to time it such that we get home around the same time (or without much gap between) - it began as a way to minimize the issues with the kids but now I believe it's something that she/we look forward to.
Jax - you asked about Sue sharing details with me. To be honest, I don't necessarily need to hear all the explicit details any more. Of course she tells me generally what went on - she continues to enjoy telling me if he'd cum more than once too! But I have to say that, lately, it is much more her actions in terms of her brazenly showing me the results of her evening fun (basically spreading her legs and letting me see how wet and used she is) as well as just sensing her arousal and pleasure. Of course as we get started on our own fun she will add in details to spur me on and excite her anew too. But it is very much something that I feel between her and I lately and that it IS true, I don't necessarily need to hear all the details.
Does it worry me that I don't know all of what went on? No, not really. I dare say that it even excites me a little bit to let my mind fill in the gaps in what she's said to me. I realize that this can go further to where I may not know much of what went on between them. I think I'll have to cross that bridge when I get to it, but right now it doesn't concern me that much.
Jax - you asked if Don "marks" her in any way. Harry did fill this in a bit - but Sue has never really been into hickies or that sorts of things. Still, I can say that there are times when her breasts seem reddened and her nipples seem positively inflamed that I know Don has been sucking at them. I've seen her butt reddened - either from "carpet burns" or maybe even from Don giving her a playful swat. I am sure she's shared with him that sometimes she'll enjoy it if I spank her a bit. I wonder if she's shared with him that she enjoys me spanking her pussy too?
I see that the last parts of this thread seem to be contemplating Don's perspective on all of this. To be honest, I'm thankful that he's been as considerate and accomodating as he has been. As Harry pointed out, I wasn't totally aware of many bull's preference/desire - or even men in general - to not have other guys cumming in their partner. As I said, it never got to this with Brad and I'd been thinking it was a unique thing with Don - but apparently it's not. So, in a sense, he's been okay about that - but then again, I don't think Sue would have gone along with that either.
Before I sign off for now - and hopefully have time later on to continue my thoughts - last night was Wednesday and rather than my time alone on the computer, Sue asked me to "wait till later" last night. About 10:30pm we went up to the bedroom and Sue stood by the bed and as she changed for bed, she took off her panties and asked me if I'd like "the real thing" to masturbate to? I told her sure. She proceeded to lay back against the headboard and spread her legs apart. As she proceeded to masturbate herself she encouraged me on at the same time. At one point she pulled out a dildo from the nightstand and let me watch her fuck herself with it. It was dark-colored so I could see her wetness on it. She asked how I liked watching and when I told her it was incredibly erotic she said "just think how you'll like it next week". As I got closer she continued her teasing - telling me at times how Don was going to fuck her and how I should imagine it being his cock in her instead of her dildo. When I was really close she told me that I should move over closer to her and when I was ready, that I should cum on the dildo! I did my best and got a few spurts on it and as she pushed it back into her covered with my stuff - she reached orgasm herself! We both laughed at each other afterwards at what a mess we'd made and she asked me if I was "happy now". I laughed back and said "for now" and that's when she said that maybe I should do it again (masturbate again) in a little bit if I was still horny - and she even offered to help me!!!
Sure enough, she reached over about 20 minutes later and gave my cock a tug and when she felt it respond she said "are you ready?". I pulled the blankets down and let her watch me get it hard again and that's when she leaned over and said "I"ll help you" and she put her lips over the tip of my cock and gently started sucking. Basically she wanted me to masturbate into her mouth and she encouraged me by licking the tip and sucking at me as I got closer. When she knew I was about to burst she pushed my hand away and sucked me into her mouth. What a sensation!!!! I let loose with as big a load as I could for the 2nd time so quickly. She moaned and squealed but caught it all in her mouth and a moment later she moved up and kissed me passionately and snowballed with me. Feeling her tongue on mine spreading my cum around was quite erotic!!!
Anyway - more later - need to get ready for a 3:30pm conference call.
just kidding I know you're not into that! Or prostate milking might work too 
