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Harry, thank you for your thoughts. I don't and I believe neither Mr Soon or Sue view Don as anything other than a prop in this adventure. He has never taken one of the kids to the ER. Nor has he ever done home work or other family functions with them. I believe Don is very replacable in the event he dosn't respect the situation after the 30 day period,if in fact, they want to make changes in what has been occurring. As always, communication is the key really between all the parties, including Don, in the event Mr Soon AND Sue are willing to give it a try. I expect it wold take Sue a couple of weeks of concern for Soon before she realized he truely had taken his foot off the brake. She is looking towards the "golden years" with this man. She may push and really have some fun but I just dont believe she is going to blow up a 30 yr marraige to truely test Soon's compulsions.
As I stated, they have come a long way. I believe dialing her back at times, like the bar flirting or the bed issue, just causes her confusion. She is not feeling like she is "Taking Control" She may actually want that. From what I have read she is ready to throw the heat to this adventure. Sorry, I am a Southerner, I dont believe she will hurt Soon in any manner that she dosn't believe he wants. She can read her man. She may bend him but she won't break him. She can still have her fun and decide just how much freedom in this adventure she can actually explore. Thank you.
Harry, thank you for your thoughts. I don't and I believe neither Mr Soon or Sue view Don as anything other than a prop in this adventure. He has never taken one of the kids to the ER. Nor has he ever done home work or other family functions with them. I believe Don is very replacable in the event he dosn't respect the situation after the 30 day period,if in fact, they want to make changes in what has been occurring. As always, communication is the key really between all the parties, including Don, in the event Mr Soon AND Sue are willing to give it a try. I expect it wold take Sue a couple of weeks of concern for Soon before she realized he truely had taken his foot off the brake. She is looking towards the "golden years" with this man. She may push and really have some fun but I just dont believe she is going to blow up a 30 yr marraige to truely test Soon's compulsions.
As I stated, they have come a long way. I believe dialing her back at times, like the bar flirting or the bed issue, just causes her confusion. She is not feeling like she is "Taking Control" She may actually want that. From what I have read she is ready to throw the heat to this adventure. Sorry, I am a Southerner, I dont believe she will hurt Soon in any manner that she dosn't believe he wants. She can read her man. She may bend him but she won't break him. She can still have her fun and decide just how much freedom in this adventure she can actually explore. Thank you.